THE REAL MAN IS

Assalamualaikum

My dear sisters when you look for a husband, don't make wealth, popularity and looks the priority of your search for marriage. 

Obviously you must be attracted to the one you want to marry, but if you go into a marriage purely for these reasons, sooner or later you will find yourself in a broken marriage, upset and distressed.

Whereas, if you had looked at the Akhlaq (character), and Deen of your husband or potential husband and find that they are of excellent level, you will indeed succeed in having picked the right happiness for yourself and your marriage.

The real man who fears Allah عز و جل will definitely fear oppressing you and He will recognise his rights over you. He will be the one who will bring up your children, he will bring up true soldiers of Islam, and true women of this Ummah.

A real man can't stand seeing his woman hurt. He's careful with his decisions and actions, so he never has to be responsible for her Pain.

“Men are the protectors and maintainers of women, because Allah has made one of them to excel the other, and because they spend (to support them) from their means”

(Surah An-Nisa’: 34)

 

The Prophet ﷺ said: “If there comes to you one whose religious commitment and attitude pleases you, then marry [your female relative who is under your care] to him, for if you do not do that, there will be tribulation on earth and much corruption.” (Narrated by al-Tirmidhi and classed as saheeh by al-Albaani in Saheeh Sunan al-Tirmidhi, 1084).