THE TRUST TO ALLAH

"If you had all relied on Allah (SWT) as you should rely on Him, then He would have provided for you as He provides for the birds, who wake up hungry in the morning and return with full stomachs at dusk."
[At-Tirmidhi]

Putting one’s trust in Allah involves two things:

(i) Depending on Allah and believing that He is the One Who causes measures to be effective; His decree comes to pass; He has decreed all things, counted them out and ordained them, may He be glorified and exalted.

(ii) Taking appropriate measures; putting one’s trust in Allah does not mean refraining from taking measures; rather part of putting one’s trust in Allah is taking appropriate measures and striving to do so. The one who refrains from doing so has gone against the laws and decree of Allah. Allah has commanded us to take appropriate measures and He encourages us to do so; He commanded His Messenger (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) to do that. 

 
So it is not permissible for the believer to refrain from taking appropriate measures; in fact he is not truly putting his trust in Allah unless he takes appropriate measures.
Hence it is prescribed to get married in order to have a child, and it is enjoined to have intercourse. If someone were to say: I shall not get married and I shall wait to have a child without getting married, he would be regarded as insane; this is not the way of those who are wise and rational.
Similarly, he should not sit in his house or in the mosque seeking charity and waiting for provision to come to him; rather he should strive hard and work to seek to earn halaal provision

Surah Al-Anfal: Verse 2

IF YOU LOVE

I've been told this story numerous times and I thought I'd share. Disclaimer I do not know if this story is true! But the message behind it is so beautiful! So even if it may not be real please try to take in the message.

There was once a Muslim man who fell in love with this Muslim lady. So he approaches her and what not. Over time both get really close and become boyfriend and girlfriend. Both weren't religious, so they didn't really care about haram and halal. But over time the Muslim brother gets closer to Islam. 

So he tells the women he loves "I love you, but I love Allah more." He tells her that he wants to be a better Muslim and leave his bad habits. So they separate. After five years this brother gains a lot of Islamic knowledge, he becomes a respected brother, he becomes very practicing. So after a while he decides that he wants to get married.

So one day as he enters his house he notices his niqabi neighbor, so he mans up and decides to ask her hand in marriage. So the day he goes to get to know her he sees her face, and it turns out the niqabi neighbor is the same girl he loved five years ago. The same very women that day took an oath to get closer to Allah as well.

Like I said this story may not be true, but it hits home. Fall in love with Allah first, fill your heart with Him and in shaa Allah, Allah will bless you with what your heart wants. If you're In a Relationship leave it, because how do you expect love and tranquility with a person when you are disobeying Allah?

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"Sayangi & Hargailah Wanita"

FITRAH MANUSIA

Cinta ialah fitrah.Untuk mengurus fitrah kita perlukan hidayah.Tanpa hidayah (petunjuk), fitrah cinta akan bertukar menjadi fitnah.

Gara-gara cinta yang meminggirkan hidayah, generasi menjadi musnah.Kerosakan sudah berlaku terlalu banyak, tetapi sangat sedikit yang mengambil iktibar agar tidak mengulangi kerosakan yang sama.

Sungguh, kita seperti kelekatu yang tidak pernah melihat akibat buruk yang menimpa kawan-kawannya yang sudah menjadi korban akibat menerjah sumber cahaya.

Rasulullah S.A.W kerana cintanya kepada Allah, sanggup bermati-matian memperjuangkan Islam.Dia dicerca, diseksa dan diancam bunuh, namun Baginda tetap tabah untuk membawa umatnya kepada Allah.Ya, Rasulullah sangat mencintai Allah dan sangat mencintai umatnya dan dengan dua cinta itulah Baginda seolah-olah tidak terasa beban kesusahan dalam menyampaikan ajaran Islam.

"Cinta mengecilkan derita, mengucupkan sengsara."

-Ust Pahrol Mohd Juoi - Cinta Yang Membunuh Jiwa-

 

Seseorang itu perlukan hidayah.Tanpa hidayah (petunjuk), fitrah cinta akan bertukar menjadi fitnah.

Gara-gara cinta yang meminggirkan hidayah, generasi menjadi musnah.Kerosakan sudah berlaku terlalu banyak, tetapi sangat sedikit yang mengambil iktibar agar tidak mengulangi kerosakan yang sama.Sungguh, kita seperti kelekatu yang tidak pernah melihat akibat buruk yang menimpa kawan-kawannya yang sudah menjadi korban akibat menerjah sumber cahaya.

Rasulullah S.A.W kerana cintanya kepada Allah, sanggup bermati-matian memperjuangkan Islam.Dia dicerca, diseksa dan diancam bunuh, namun Baginda tetap tabah untuk membawa umatnya kepada Allah.Ya, Rasulullah sangat mencintai Allah dan sangat mencintai umatnya dan dengan dua cinta itulah Baginda seolah-olah tidak terasa beban kesusahan dalam menyampaikan ajaran Islam.

"Cinta mengecilkan derita, mengucupkan sengsara"

Ust Pahrol Mohd Juoi - Cinta Yang Membunuh Jiwa

 

 

THE REAL MAN IS

Assalamualaikum

My dear sisters when you look for a husband, don't make wealth, popularity and looks the priority of your search for marriage. 

Obviously you must be attracted to the one you want to marry, but if you go into a marriage purely for these reasons, sooner or later you will find yourself in a broken marriage, upset and distressed.

Whereas, if you had looked at the Akhlaq (character), and Deen of your husband or potential husband and find that they are of excellent level, you will indeed succeed in having picked the right happiness for yourself and your marriage.

The real man who fears Allah عز و جل will definitely fear oppressing you and He will recognise his rights over you. He will be the one who will bring up your children, he will bring up true soldiers of Islam, and true women of this Ummah.

A real man can't stand seeing his woman hurt. He's careful with his decisions and actions, so he never has to be responsible for her Pain.

“Men are the protectors and maintainers of women, because Allah has made one of them to excel the other, and because they spend (to support them) from their means”

(Surah An-Nisa’: 34)

 

The Prophet ﷺ said: “If there comes to you one whose religious commitment and attitude pleases you, then marry [your female relative who is under your care] to him, for if you do not do that, there will be tribulation on earth and much corruption.” (Narrated by al-Tirmidhi and classed as saheeh by al-Albaani in Saheeh Sunan al-Tirmidhi, 1084).